100 Ways to Keep Your Lover - Ways 11-15
by Al Link and Pala Copeland
11. Select interesting and unusual locations for lovemaking. Be bold and daring in your experiments. For example, slip into the small public washroom at the art gallery, lock the door and have a hot quickie. Become a member of the mile high club and use the washroom on an airplane. Stop along the road and use a farmer’s field—carry a couple of blankets for just such an occasion.
12. Try different lovemaking positions. Boldly experiment! There are many books, electronic books and videos featuring Tantric and Kama Sutra sex positions.
Playful Positions for Pleasure


13. Try The Luv Seat or one of many love swings or Liberator Shapes. These devices make interesting sexual positions easy and fun. Liberator shapes in particular are excellent regardless of your age, state of health or physical fitness. Swings are more physically challenging.
14. Create a temple-of-love space in anticipation of your sacred lovemaking. Make your space beautiful. Keep it simple. Tidy the room. Light lots of candles.
Bring in fresh flowers or green plants. Place objects of beauty or objects with special emotional or spiritual significance around the room, including erotic sensual art. Cover hard edges, televisions, etc. with elegant cloth obtained inexpensively at the remnant shop. Try silk sheets if you can afford them, or 300-600 count Egyptian cotton or linen sheets for your lovers’ bed.
15. Create your own lovemaking rituals & ceremonies. Keep it simple. Here are examples of rituals we use for psychic protection during lovemaking so that we feel safe to completely let go.
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