We all have the same 24 hours each day. Our only freedom in time is how to use it. It is said, “if you want something done, give it to a busy person to do.” The time required to use the membership site is perhaps 20-30 minutes per day, less time than you spend watching a TV sit com or the evening news. Remember, “I don’t have time for something” is really saying “It does not matter to me; it is not really important to me.” Think about what is important to you. If your relationship is one of those things, you must spend time on it in order to make it thrive.

The only way to find out for sure is to start your membership and give it a try. The risk is so very small, just a one month membership, so it is hard to imagine that you could possibly regret joining to see what we offer. The upside gain in relationship happiness is almost incalculable, not to mention the knowledge and skill of sexual mastery.

Absolutely you will be able to understand the material and apply it in your relationship. Furthermore, you will have lots of fun learning the things we teach. We go to great lengths to make sure the material is easily understandable and applied. Everything is broken down into small steps, so you take one  step at a time, at your own speed. Chew on it, digest it, and only when you are ready do you take the next step. This curriculum is presented in a sequence suitable for the busiest people. We start you at the beginning and you progress from where you are along a learning path completely suitable to both of you. It is designed to appeal to all learning styles, including text (reading), audio (listening), video (watching), and live interaction (chat, forums and teleseminars). The contents are directed to all levels of your being including body, mind, heart, and soul.

When undertaking a new learning journey, doubting yourself is normal, but your risk is very small to find out how much and how effectively we can help you create a happy fulfilling relationship. Our reputation on the Internet is well and long established, dating back to 1997 when we first started working with couples. We have saved many a marriage. We have helped hundreds of couples learn to create love and to be happy together. Read some of the testimonials from those who we have already worked with to see what they say. These are all real people, ordinary people, people just like yourselves. If they can do it, so can you. We can help you learn what you need to learn to do it.

There are many excellent teachers, coaches and guides around Planet Earth, and with the Internet it is relatively easy to find them. By all means shop around to see who else is out there. We have looked at this closely when we started developing the curriculum for this membership website, and frankly, we know of nothing else by any other teachers that come even close to what you will find at our website. Some can do and some can teach; we are blessed to be able to do and to teach. Don’t underestimate the importance of good teaching skills when searching for someone to guide you.

The sequence of material you will be introduced to each month is very powerful and very dynamic. It is designed to appeal to all learning styles, including text (reading), audio (listening), video (watching), and live interaction (chat, forums and teleseminars). The contents are directed to all levels of your being including body, mind, heart, and soul. We help you learn to become master lovers (great sex techniques based upon the classic Kama Sutra), to re-connect sex and spirit (sacred sex practices from Tantric and Taoist traditions), and to undertake a spiritual quest together leading all the way to enlightenment if you want to take it that far—we call this section Enlightenment for Two™. All of this from the comfort of your own home!

Al experienced enlightenment in January 2008, the culmination of almost 40 years of spiritual quest, and transmitted it into Pala within minutes. We will act as your spiritual guides in your search for the highest direct experience of pure consciousness—the absolute ground of all being. We teach based upon having been there, not just based upon theoretical knowledge learned from reading books others have written.

Our curriculum is original, authentic, and effective.

If there is something you are looking for but can’t find on our website, send us an email and let us know what that is. We will do our best to provide everything that is important to you and also relevant to the theme of this website, creating sexy spiritual relationships.  We do believe our content goes very deep and is comprehensive covering almost everything that we have discovered to be of significance in helping couples be happy growing old together. We will continue to add new content and build the site over the months and years to come.

We have some great things already in the works to surprise you with following our initial launch of the site. Right now we have a complete Kama Sutra home study course available, and will be releasing the complete Tantra home study course sometime this fall, probably in September. Look for our Tantra home study course launch event at that time.

In order to avoid overload, we will introduce the curriculum to our members sequenced over the weeks and months to come, a little bit at a time. This sequence is designed to take you step by step up the ladder of relationship happiness. What comes later, requires the pre-requisites of the lessons that have preceded it. If you are enrolled for at least one year, the archived material you can access will go very deep and will be more than the average person could possibly use, at least all at once.

You could sabotage your ultimate progress by trying to jump ahead too rapidly, or acquiring too much information too soon. First you build a firm learning foundation, then you expand up and out with additional lessons.  First you walk, then you run, and eventually you fly. Remember that your knowledge will almost certainly exceed your skill for the early months of your membership. Much of our curriculum is experiential, requiring you to practice what you are learning in order to develop skill. As your skill catches up with your knowledge, your progress will become much more rapid, irresistible and irreversible.

 
We have been careful to appeal to all possible learning styles, presenting the curriculum in multi-media richness including text (reading), audio (listening), video (watching), and live interaction (chat, forums and teleseminars). Much of the content is delivered in the form of exercises that lovers can do alone and together in order to develop high levels of skill mastery with repetitions and practice over time. We are quite confident that all learners will find the mode of presentation best suited to how they like to learn new information and skill.

You and about 4 billion other human beings on the planet are shy about sex; you are certainly not alone. Many of us have been subjected to some pretty harsh negative social conditioning telling us that sex is bad, dirty and dangerous. Perhaps it can be, but it does not have to be that way. If you want to learn about a healthy, mature, adult sexuality this is the time and place to do it. If you want to reclaim your birthright of being in a body and experiencing the pleasure and emotional connection and spiritual awakening that sacred sex makes possible, this is the time and place to do that. Don’t be like the thirsty person walking around in a rain storm with an umbrella over their head, refusing to drink. Come to the water’s edge. Take a drink. Have a swim. Find out that the water is warm and safe and nurturing and good. Sex is good. Sex with love is magnificent. Sex as a spiritual practice is over the top. Don’t you want some? Take the very small risk of becoming a member just for one month and see what is available. You will be glad that you did. Oh yes, on our website you can remain completely anonymous. No one needs to know who you are.

Who cares? Sorry, of course you want to be respectful of your mother’s (or other loved ones) values, but whose life is it anyway? She does not have to live with your unhappiness, you do, and your partner does, and your kids do have to live with it.

Maybe. Maybe not. Don’t be so sure, until you know enough about what we offer to be able to introduce it to them. Make a decision about that after you have been a member for several months and are more familiar with the curriculum we have created. We believe you will be surprised and delighted in how eagerly your partner agrees to come on board with you. So get started on your own and introduce it to your partner as you gain more confidence in yourself.
 

Many of the world/s great religions have a negative sex orientation, or the message about sex is ambiguous and confusing. We recommend making up your own mind about it, but doing so from real experience and informed knowledge, not just some conditioned assumptions and beliefs you adopted when you were young and not ready to decide for yourself. Our approach is spiritual not religious. We have never had anyone tell that anything we teach is in direct contradiction with their existing religious belief system, and we have worked with people from almost every religious denomination imaginable, including ministers of churches.

Essentially what it boils down to is this. Sex can be bad. It is usually bad when the lovers are ignorant about sex, lacking the most basic information about a mature healthy adult sexuality, and are possibly almost completely lacking is sexual skill mastery. In this type of situation, sex is usually very quick (lasting only a few minutes), the male ejaculates prematurely or can’t get and keep an erection, and the woman can’t have an orgasm. There may be little or no emotional connection and no spiritual dimension to the sex act. This is the kind of sex that is common if your belief is that sex is solely for procreation, but not pleasure.

But of course, sex does not have to be bad. If you are good then your sex will be good; in fact it can be magnificent. It is magnificent when the lovers take their time and go slowly, learn the knowledge and skill involved in giving and receiving pleasure, when they drop the performance goal of getting to orgasm, when the sex becomes a sincere expression of love and when lovemaking becomes a spiritual meditation (sacred sex). We can teach you how to do these things, and much much more.  We know you deserve nothing less, don’t you agree?

Fear of failure when undertaking a new learning adventure is normal for almost everyone.

Failure only actually happens when you don’t try and when you quit trying. As Wayne Gretzky says, “100 % of the shots you don’t take don’t go in.” If you lack confidence in your ability to learn the things you need to learn, then we suggest you go on faith at first, trusting that we have put together a curriculum that will make it relatively easy for you to get some quick results, as well as to steadily gain momentum as you progress in your learning over the coming weeks and months. The only way forward is to get started, and remember that you can proceed as slowly as you need, and you can always access the archived material to review any time you need to do so. Just take one step at a time. We are also available for personal coaching to help you through any tough spots. You can do it and we will help you every step of the way. We care about you and our strongest desire is for you to succeed in manifesting all the wishes of your heart.

What if I'm not in a relationship? Would your Sexy Spiritual Relationships membership website be useful for singles to help them learn about and prepare to be in relationship?

You can learn everything you need to learn at Sexy Spiritual Relationships. All the knowledge and skill to be in relationship must be learned whether you are already in relationship or just want to be. Our website is the best place on the Internet to learn about creating a sexy spiritual relationship that satisfies through and through and is strong enough to last a lifetime together with someone.

 

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